Do you have a minute to talk

Here is what I have learned the past few weeks and days. When someone calls you and asks "do you have a minute to talk?" The answer should always be no. There is nothing good that can come from the conversation. From now on you will have to leave a message. I don't want to chat with anymore doctors or veterinarians for a very loooong time. I can't even begin to wrap my brain around the roller coaster that has become my life. Here's hoping for some good results and a smoother week.